"Suffering arises from trying to control what is uncontrollable, or from neglecting what is within our power."
-- Epictetus"Happiness and freedom begin with a clear understanding of one principle: Some things are within your control, and some things are not."
-- Epictetus"Other people's views and troubles can be contagious. Don't sabotage yourself by unwittingly adopting negative, unproductive attitudes."
-- Epictetus"If evil be spoken of you and it be true, correct yourself, if it be a lie, laugh at it."
-- Epictetus"Attach yourself to what is spiritually superior, regardless of what other people think or do."
-- Epictetus"He is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not, but rejoices for those which he has."
-- Epictetus"To accuse others for one's own misfortune is a sign of want of education."
-- Epictetus"Any person capable of angering you becomes your master; he can anger you only when you permit yourself to be disturbed by him."
-- Epictetus"Practice yourself, for heaven's sake, in little things; and thence proceed to greater."
-- Epictetus"When you are offended at any man's fault, turn to yourself and study your own failings. Then you will forget your anger."
-- Epictetus"When someone is properly grounded in life, they shouldn't have to look outside themselves for approval."
-- Epictetus"Settle on the type of person you want to be and stick to it, whether alone or in company."
-- Epictetus"Difficulties show a person's character."
-- Epictetus"Nothing great is created suddenly, any more than a bunch of grapes or a fig."
-- Epictetus"The more we value things outside our control, the less control we have."
-- Epictetus"It is the nature of the wise to resist pleasures, but the foolish to be a slave to them."
-- Epictetus"You become what you give your attention to."
-- Epictetus"Know, first, who you are, and then adorn yourself accordingly."
-- Epictetus"A ship should not ride on a single anchor, nor life on a single hope."
-- Epictetus"First learn the meaning of what you say, and then speak."
-- Epictetus"I cannot escape death, but at least I can escape the fear of it."
-- Epictetus"Men are disturbed not by things, but by the views which they take of things."
-- Epictetus"Don't explain your philosophy. Embody it."
-- Epictetus"The key is to keep company only with people who uplift you, whose presence calls forth your best."
-- Epictetus